I ask if Webmaster tools is installed because of the warning message.
"We've detected that some of the links pointing to your site are using techniques outside Google'sWebmaster Guidelines.
We don't want to put any trust in links that are artificial or unnatural. We recommend removing any unnatural links to your site. However, we do realize that some links are outside of your control. As a result, for this specific incident we are taking very targeted action on the unnatural links instead of your site as a whole. If you are able to remove any of the links, please submit a reconsideration request, including the actions that you took.
If you have any questions, please visit our Webmaster Help Forum."
But you say you have not received the warning so OK. Now lets look at the other issues.
OSE - OSE is not real time info so it takes a while for new info (anchor text) to show up. As for the 95 links are you checking patiopads.com or www.patiopads.com? I see 2,069 links for www.patiopads.com
Linking from your own site - http://pipefinepatiofurniture.com/ and http://patiopads.com/ are both registered to the same owner. Linking back from 100's of pages using the same exact text link is not a good idea. Especially now that you have changed the Anchor Text. These are unnatural activities and are all red flags for Google.
I think that it would be a good idea to rethink your link-building strategy. Use OSE to see what your top competitor's are doing. Remember with link-building it's not quantity it's quality.
