Hi Mark!
Thats honesty!
I´ve heard that SEO´s recommend NOT to make a reconsideration at Google. Then it is obviously that you broke the rules with purpose. But now you´ve already sent the reconsideration so lets take it from here.
My recommendation now is: Do all you can to increase your trust again.
- Remove as many ugly links as you can
- Ensure that your onpage is not over-optimized
- Be active in social media
- Get links from pages with high trust
- Work with authorship markup
- Add phone number and adress to your website
- Post fresh and good content (gives Google a new argument for indexing the page again)
All those kind of activities give signals to Google, something is changing (is he doing right this time?).
It might take some time, but if you really want to get back on track with the same website, you will succeed!
Good luck!