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Well that is cloaking, and against google guidlines. You are showing the search engine somthing different to the user. There is no need for flash, the home page is text, why not format it as html and then users will not have to wait. See what google has to say about showing flash to users and html to bots http://support.google.com/webmasters/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=66355

Agree with the music user experience too (at least offer an option to turn the sound off - as is offered inside the site) - I recently got married & that Christina Perri song was part of the ceremony so it didn't bother me as much but it could be a potential reason for some bounces, as Ryan mentioned. Expansion on Facebook & other social channels could be very good & low cost mediums for you to gain an audience. Start with your existing clients and leverage from their friends & family. Tag the models too (they can always be removed if unwanted) And yes... stunning photos - you're very talented!

I would say focus on putting locations into your alt img tags and let Google figure out the location by site scraping rather then keywords. Diversify your keywords to reflect that you are a "wedding photographer" and get yourself listed into some local directories and that should help put you on the right track. I would also look into making connections with links from websites in your area and get yourself listed with Google maps and getting some images posted in some social relative to your area. For local pictures I say social, social, social!

Glad to help Hope it's an easy fix.