Hey Charles, sorry you are having problems.
I would like to suggest you check-out WP Fix It. I've used them in the past for clients who needed just what you need right now: a monthly managed WP service to do all the heavy lifting for you.
The price for their service is $57/mo. Here's a list of what that service plan looks like:
- Premium Stable Hosting
- Elite Security Protection
- Daily Full Site Backups
- Monthly Software Updates
- Personalized Agent Connection
- Unlimited Issue Support
- FREE website transfer
Now, again, I have no direct involvement with the site myself but I've used them multiple times and I've always been impressed with how fast they respond to client questions and concerns...including when a site "suddenly goes down."
In your case, if your "host" can't figure it out then your host probably SUCKS. If you are using the Bluehost and GoDaddys of the World that may explain your problem. So it's possible that migrating you off your host to something more "reliable" may solve a lot of your problems.
But if you need a suggestion, check-out www.wpfixit.com. You can do much, much worse.
Good luck and keep us updated in the thread!
