When going about asking a site for a link on their page, how do you ask?

[EGOL]

I am sure that flattery works well most of the time..... but as soon as I see it I am reaching for a can of Raid.

[connectiveWeb]

haha

[utahseopros]

Personalizing your emails is key

[ClickValueMedia]

Just a quick question. Do you position youeself as an employee of the client company or as a marketing/seo company representing the client?

D

[LawSEOGuy]

Give away more than you get. I give the "right" link partner a 5 to 1 link exchange. They get 5 directory links I get 1 home page link.

[johnshearer]

EGOL...give ten people a free $100 bill...and two people will complain how they cannot use a $100 bill at a gas station; why not 5 $20's instead.

[TimKelsey]

I go for the agency representing a client position, but I'd like to hear what everyone else has to say about this. I've often wondered if a message directly from the client would be more effective.

[Entrusteddev]

I go for transparency everytime and tell them I represent or work on behalf of the client.

Best to be upfront and not get rubbled and sour a potential relationship.

[BurstMarketing]

Outspoken Media did a killer post about using personas. It's largely geared towards blog commenting, but it could definitely be applied to lots of different situations.

http://outspokenmedia.com/online-marketing/personae-ethics/

[warcom]

Asking for back links, kinda seems a lot like begging to me.

And not many people like to give money to beggers.

But having said that; the best way to go about it would obviously be to start within the circles of people you actually know.

Don't just go and approach random website owners; they'll think you're shady. (I know I do!) -> instant delete!

Build up a relationship with site owners and over time, then ask. But not before you've posted a link to their site first.

Scratch their back -> before asking if they will scratch yours.

ps: I gave EGOL a thumbs up! And those who said he should have been given one, I gave you all thumbs up too. Share the love!

[SteveOllington]

But not before you've posted a link to their site first.

But then it's merely a reciprocal link, and 9 times out of 10 will be less in value. I'd rather get the link through another hook, though I agree something must be in it for them too.

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[EGOL]

Ha ha... that is really a good one.  Thanks!

[TheeDigital]

Add value to your content and you won't need to beg for site owners to get links to your website. People would link to you on their own.

You can also tweet and post your links on Facebook; or add "real/valuable" blog comments with a link to your site.

[lonniea]

Even though I personally agree with Egol, it doesn't mean that Trevor will like the answer. Egol is correct, however I feel Trevor's question is still not answered the way he would like. His problem is not getting any responses back and perhaps he's been doing the exact instructions as Egol has generously suggested but still getting nowhere.

There are many ways to get people to interact with you.

Here are list of favourable ways I use to get a site to respond.

1. Use their Contact Us form or Support channel. Create a ticket.

2. Offer a small monthly fee of $5.00/mth. Most times, they simply respond and make a clean exchange. the initial response is what you're looking for. Don't wait 24 hours. Act immdiately!

3. If the site has a great reputation and authority, make a post which includes a follow in the upper part of your article (above the fold). Next contact the owner and ask if your post link (anchor is okay). Perhaps send a support ticket.

4. Offer a free gift in exchange for the linkback.

5. Using RSS feeds is extremely powerful these days in creating easy one way do follow linkbacks to your site.

6. Social bookmarking sites like LinkedIn and StumbleUpon work extremely well with Yahoo Pipes.

The above has worked well for me and I'm sure it will for you. Especially #3, 4 & 5. You can also purchase great backlink sites instructional PDF's that contain  *.org & *.edu domains. Complete step-by-step how to place your link in a very professional manner.

I hope this helped.

Lonnie Amirault

[loopyal]

the thumbs up and thumbs down on different sites are swapped around and if you were a late night SEO, maybe you could be too tired to see you hit the wrong one?

[loopyal]

This is exactly right.

The number of garbage link requests to great, useful ones that I would even consider on a news site is about 1000:1.

Most people want a quick fix program to do the work for them.

[loopyal]

We get a few of these each month too, but most of them ask us to link to a garbage site and they are 100% automated.

My name is on the site, so if they just say "Dear Webmaster," they didn't use any effort, and that is a mark against them. Plus, the message uses exactly the same format as the previous 10.

You can use automation, but there has to be something personal.

People don't seem to have learned ANYTHING about "social."

[Uramark]

Tonight I've crafted a backlink strategy, after reading all of this.

1. I have client campaigns set up with Ontolo.

2. I use eMail Extractor to scrape email addresses from sites generated by Ontolo.

3. I use iContact to ask for permission to add them to my mailing list. The email has the following features:

a) a professional email template

b) a picture of myself and my name, position and company

c) a value proposition: an hour worth of free keyword auditing in exchange for a link to my client's site.

d) recognizing their site is well respected

e) the lure of not knowing the client's name and site until they subscribe.

[glennfriesen]

Hear hear!