Your experience far exceeds mine, so I don't have much confidence in my response here but I'm a bit puzzled: If I tell the desktop bot to follow to the mobile site, then it will crawl the mobile friendly pages, which I don't want it to do because its the wrong bot to be crawling the mobile pages with. I assume the mobile bot will find my site the same way the desktop bot will find it, and isn't dependent on the desktop bot to find it. It's the same url for both: www.qjamba.com so as long as the mobile bot goes to that url it will crawl it.
From what I just read the alternate tag is used when the page is actually a different url name, and that isn't the case for my site
HERE'S MY CONCERN: The mobile bot has crawled my mobile friendly home page, and it lists it as 'mobile-friendly' on a mobile device, but it is still using the wrong title, which makes me suspect something very worrisome: Google doesn't keep(for anybody) separate indexes for mobile and desktop bots when the url is the same: It may crawl both and check for mobile rendering for the mobile, and it may use the crawl to determine what other pages to crawl for the respective bot, but the content itself perhaps isn't being stored seperately for the mobile bot (ask yourself -- would it store separate content for mobile when a responsive site design is used? i'm thinking maybe it wouldn't).
Unfortunately, very few people in SEO seem to know the answer to this critical issue, and it seems very hard to test because of the lag time Google has in putting things into the index (ie it may crawl with the other bot before it puts the content into the index for the first bot--see next para).
IF THAT FEAR IS REALITY, I need to probably move to using a separate domain for my site because my mobile version excludes a whole bunch of content that exists for desktop only--yet if I tell the mobile bot that those URLS are 404 it perhaps would remove the url from the only index it has - the desktop index - and if I tell it they are 301s, then it may replace the desktop index content with the redirection content (the mobile home page), which would totally counterproductive.
Thanks again...I'm really not sure what to do anymore though..
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