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I advise you that I won't really be able to offer you a definitive answer. More, I put this as discussion so to entice people in offering their ideas and so trying to help you and the community. Sincerely, I don't know if exists a "definitive" tool doing what you're asking. Did you try Rmoov? Or the SEOGadget Link Cleanup & Contact tool? Or the same LinkDetox, which has a good contact retrieval tool inside its links analysis one? Another good tool is Linkrisk.